Growing up I was so different then most other kids. My parents had me at 16 and 20. They were split up my entire life. My mother’s parents did a big part of my raising. So it was so many different opinions around me I didn’t know which way to turn.
I do know for the most part I was to “save face”. We don’t talk about the ugly in life. Even if it is our truth. We keep it quiet. Why am I not allowed to speak up about my life.
This post is the end to that. I am so tired of being silenced. I am allowed to feel and speak exactly how I want to.
I love telling the people that already know the truth my life in 2022 has been a trip. I had a baby in the bathtub, my dad got a girl younger then me pregnant, and my mom got a divorce after 19 years while keeping it a secret for a month.
All this I would be told “it isn’t your place to tell”. Okay but it effects me. It changed my future. It has an outcome on my life. Why can’t I speak on it?
Was this a rant… Yes.
Is this just the start…. Probably.
Handling The Harpers 